Arms folded is a defensive posture that tells people keep away that’s basic body language reading, the lack of fixed eye contact (often looks away from people). You find that when he sits down his arms are often folded, his legs close together this is all closed body language
Passive Aggressive - the way he dealt with Auba
Uncomfortable with one on one interactions - during eight episodes he never has more than brief interactions with players one on one, often the same with staff and when he’s interviewed he’s usually on his own. Even at home there is a distance maintained from his wife and kids
See his response when asked about how Wenger would go for a coffee with whoever was his club captain, the idea horrifies him.
None of this is deep psychoanalysis because apart from anything else psychoanalysis deals with what’s beneath the surface the pre and sub conscious - dream analysis and bullshit like that. I’m merely talking about what’s there on a plain surface level. I’m sorry we’ve become so detached as a society that we can’t read each other anymore but there’s nothing I’ve said that shouldn’t be apparent to anyone with any basic understanding of body language and behaviour.
I’m sorry to piss on your bonfire, but when I said I was deeply concerned by what I saw in that documentary it wasn’t hyperbole. To be honest I went in thinking i was just making assumptions about how stand offish, socially awkward and unfriendly he was….and for the first episode I thought ok maybe I’ve misjudged him but as you go further in the evidence is disturbing.