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It’s nice that you can empathise with the problem I have when engaging with youQuote:
Originally Posted by Mac76
Like Trump you’re very good at accusing other people of that of which you yourself are guilty :d
Very similar desperation to be right as well.
Right about what?Quote:
Originally Posted by HCZ_Reborn
if we go back to the beginning of this conversation, you posted your player ratings and I gave my own view (as, again, one does on a message board) about Havertz, plus pointed out in an innocent way that Tomiyasu's name was spelt differently to the way in which you'd typed it
Instead of just accepting that, you had to respond in a brusque and offensive manner and, in doing so, displaying the characteristics of someone who can't stand to be contradicted
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Originally Posted by Mac76
No this started because you took exception to my response.
I wouldn’t mind but I tell you all the time that I don’t give a fuck, from you whining about me calling Lavia Labia etc
It’s not that I’m annoyed you’ve pointed it out, I don’t care that you don’t like my silly jokes and I don’t care that I’ve spelt a players name wrong….you read petulance into it because your own response to contradiction is petulance so you assume everyone is like you.
If you just admit you were upset because you wanted acknowledgement from me, this whole tiresome and circular argument can end
I actually meant the Lavia comment in humour, the trouble with you is you can't read a deadpan remark when you see itQuote:
Originally Posted by HCZ_Reborn
As for the rest, you know perfectly well I'm not remotely upset, it's you that exhibits precisely the behaviour you desperately try to project onto me
If someone says something like "I don't give a fuck if you think differently" that is a strong and emotional response which shows they are angry that someone has contradicted them, i.e. they aren't capable of properly engaging in normal discourse
Would it help if I said I was sorry for not giving you the validation you craved ?
Would it help your self esteem going forward if you point out a typo or some other equally important thing that I immediately boost your ego by telling you you’re right and how clever you are for pointing out.
Basically what can I do to make you feel more secure about yourself?
What would help woudl be if you stopped trying to project your own charecteristics onto other people and faced to them instead :good:Quote:
Originally Posted by HCZ_Reborn
I'll say it again, I simply gave some views in response to your own and you just couldn't cope with someone having a different view from you - that's what this is all about - that and a refusal to admit when you've messed up someone's name or the order of the teams etc...
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Originally Posted by Mac76
I beseech you, please read the article I sent you
And I beseech you, please stop flooding this board with psychological BS and accept that other people have different opinions from you and that it's really ok for that to be the case, they're not attacking you or threatening you - it's alright, really :)Quote:
Originally Posted by HCZ_Reborn
Are you telling this to me or yourself ?Quote:
Originally Posted by Mac76
Seriously I’ve given you every chance to wind your neck in and back down. I’ve told you quite honestly that me saying “I don’t give a fuck” wasn’t me being hostile. But you refused to accept it (and yet you have the gall to tell me I won’t accept when I’m wrong :lol:)
So yeah, if you can’t be a serious grown up I won’t treat you seriously
Bit quiet on here today.
I think two people can only really go round in circles saying the same thing for so long before one or both of them get boredQuote:
Originally Posted by Chippy
When you’re dealing with two stubborn, argumentative people it largely comes down to endurance