sheepish? you mean i practice self-restraint and don't couch everything in overtly offensive terms - in that case, fine i'll take 'sheepish' any day of the week
so what if i referred to you, you're on this board and I was talking about things you say which I think are extremely over the top - so fine, guilty
but where does it say - "NQ should stop saying those things"?
where does it say "NQ should be banned"?
it doesn't - so i'm not telling anyone to do anything
and as for your accusing people of lecturing...