1) You’re still trying to rationalise emotional responses, the two things rarely if ever overlap
2) If what you said was remotely true you simply wouldn’t have some of the stuff you see posted on social media. No one is above it not even you. I suspect your response to me is motivated by emotion, I’ve challenged your post and your “must win” driver has been activated. That’s an observation not a criticism, because I do it I can recognise it when I see it