There are ways of conducting yourself and whatever the result you go and thank the fans for their support - they've given up their day to travel and watch you, they're paying your salary and if you've just got thumped they deserve your thanks even more than if you'd won. BFG was right IMO, it's not ideal for it to happen in public as it gives the media twinta ammo but football is an emotional game and these things will happen.
How either player played is immaterial