you don't seem to be able to able to grasp it's the principle of the thing
The context can make a difference - e.g. your date example - but not in situations where a man grabs a colleague in the stationary cupboard - whether or not they are in public, the principle is the same - a work colleague acting inappropriately
either we are soft on such behaviour, therefoer perpetuating it, or we make clear it's not acceptable
anyway whatever, you clearly don't get it so i give up![]()