Seriously?! Go and read Fever Pitch. That will tell you a bit about the life and expectations of an Arsenal fan back in the day.
Before Wenger we never consistently challenged for the title over a long period of time.
After the period of dominance in the 30s and before Wenger we were champions in 1948, 1953, 1971, 1989 and 1991.
If we expect more these days then that is
because of Wenger.
The Financially doped teams is not an 'excuse'. Money and success is clearly very highly correlated in modern football and we had the double whammy of the two billionaire cheats coming to prominence around the same time as we made the stadium move and secured long term financial deals which, while initially looking favourable, as the money spiraled started to restrict our spending. There are three clubs who have greater resources than us and they have divided the title between them every year since we last won it. And Utd only managed to spoil the party of the two clubs fueled by billionaires when Fergie was in change who, IMO, is the GOAT. That last season Utd had no right to win the title.
All that said, we have now repaid a lot of the stadium debt and have new financial deals in place, we are starting to be able to compete more seriously in the transfer market, the signings of Ozil and Sanchez are a level of player we couldn't get before and they have made a difference. I do think we're more able to compete with City and Chelsea and if FFP has any bite (skeptical) then we are very well placed to seriously challenge.
I do agree about the CL though, Wenger's record there is impressive in some ways (always qualifying, always getting to the last 16) and abject in others (rarely getting any further). That is where another manager may be able to push us on.
The reason your analogy doesn't work is where you say it's a "painful" existence. Really? There have been some massively frustrating times in the last two seasons but such is the life of a football fan of any club. Chelsea are champions but their fans must have been embarrassed at their FA Cup defeat. The most frustrating thing about the last 10 years has been the lack of trophies, we were so often the bridesmaid, never the bride. We started to put that right last year, if we retain the Cup then we're continuing to do so.
I wouldn't swap managers with any other club in the PL - I would with Chelsea where Mourinho not such a despicable ****, he's the only manager in the PL I rate more highly than Wenger although honourable mention to Koeman who has done an excellent job.
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