I'm not asking either of those things really.
I post on here because it breaks up the working day and although it's not as good as it used to be there are still occasions where people post things which amuse me. Often you, actually.
And I'm an Arsenal fan because my dad is, simple as that.
You don't have to give the game up, I haven't entirely. But I follow it from a distance these days for a number of reasons. You don't have to leap around in celebration about a good win against a poor side either, but neither should it be an opportunity to have another moan.
Having finished 4th then 3rd then 2nd in the last 3 years and won two FA Cups it's a bit of a stretch to say that "just about everything is pissworthy". And nothing has happened to Wenger, if anything it's what hasn't happened to him. Football has moved on and he hasn't, or not enough. But I don't need to provide proof that he wants to win, everyone at that level wants to win. I don't think he has the ability to compete at the very top any more but it's not because he doesn't want to. You don't sign players like Ozil, Cech and Sanchez if you want to be average. The fact we failed to win the title with them, especially last season, is a failing but it's a lack of ability, not desire.
And as for the football we grew up with. How old are you? I grew up with George Graham's boring boring Arsenal. In 92/93 my dad very nearly gave up our season tickets it was so poor (it was my first year at Uni so I was spared most of it mercifully). We did win both domestic cups that year so there was a cherry on top of the turd of a season but 90% of it was horrible.
Who said you have to stop supporting the club? I support the club, that doesn't mean I have to go to games or even watch games really. I used to, now I don't. Partly ennui about Groundhog Day and the way football has gone generally but there are other factors. That doesn't strip me of the title of Arsenal supporter. At some point I may get more interested again. It's as simple as if I'm not enjoying something I stop doing it.
If you want to "stick around to call these cunts out for what they are." then I guess that makes sense and that does answer my original question
I'm not sure if I do run a fan forum, this place doesn't take much running these days. If I do run it then it's purely for historic reasons, I was on 606 then GW. In time the kid who started GW invited me to be a mod and then when he drifted away from it I ended being the owner by default. And this all happened when I was still a season ticket holder. I'm not sure going to games is a prerequisite for running the place anyway.