
you’re literally trying to tell me you understand this better than I do. I have to admit I got you wrong, I knew you were conceited but I didn’t realise quite how much.
First off apart from being slightly irksome, your assertions are not likely to make me believe I am capable of hurting someone, and even if they were…acting as though thoughts have power over you is essentially making yourself a slave to a condition like Pure O.
In relation to most recent comment Google it, and you’ll find it’s a common expression. And as I’ve tried patiently to explain to you, there’s a difference between words and deeds, just as much as there’s a difference between thoughts and deeds. All I can say to you now is that if you’re still convinced that there’s a connection between saying things and behaviour, that’s a you problem.
Morality is judged by actions not words, I’ve had female friends come to me to disclose sexual abuse…one of them I spent a lot of time trying to persuade her to go to the police where it turned out her abuser had form for this kind of thing.
Would I use such an expression around these people? No. But you tailor your language to an appropriate audience
I wouldn’t share the type of jokes I read in Viz with my dad for instance